Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Problems in your love life...
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Semua perjalanan hidup pasti ada masalah dan ujian dari yang Empunya. Termasuk juga masalah percintaan, ga akan mungkin dikehidupan percintaan itu ga ada masalah. Pasti ada aja masalah yang kian terus berlalu *kaya piala bergilir deh.
Masalah-masalah itu terjadi karena tiap pasangan memiliki sifat, kepribadian, dan sikap yang berbeda dalam menghadapi hidup bersama. Inilah yang membedakan teman dan pasangan kekasih *istilahnya pacar deh. Setelah gue baca-baca di Psychology for Living (Duffy & Atwater, 2004), dibilangin kalo,
However,because of the greater exclusiveness and emotional involvement between them, lovers also experiences greater ambivalence, conflicts, distresses, and mutual criticism in their relationships than do friends.Which means : Pacaran itu lebih besar terjadinya perbedaan, konflik, dan keadaan yang stress dibandingkan dengan temenan. Itulah kenapa kita lebih gampang memaafkan teman dibandingkan dengan pacar. Hal itu dikarenakan hubungan pertemanan tidak memiliki perasaan yang khusus dan ikatan emosional yang lebih.
Maka dari itu, kalo kita udah punya pacar lalu ada masalah, besoknya curhat ke temen yang berbeda jenis kelamin dan merasa temen tersebut yang mengerti diri kamu apa adanya Terus tiba-tiba punya pemikiran kalo temen tersebut bisa jadi pacar yang lebih baik. Yah itu belum tentu, boi...
Rumput sebelah memang selalu lebih hijau, teman hahahha. Godaan ada dimana-mana *pengalaman diri sendiri. Malah curhat, kembali ke topik. Jadi gimana dong caranya untuk mengatasi permasalahan itu dan bukan kabur dari masalah? Caranya cuman satu COMMUNICATE!!
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Sunday, April 4, 2010
Quote for this day
9:20 PM | Posted by
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Albert Einstein says :
Yak!!! Harus naik level nih!!!
The significant problems we face in life cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them.
Yak!!! Harus naik level nih!!!
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Lagu ini mungkin yang bisa mempresentasikan perasaan gue sekarang.. Just need someone and say, "you're not alone and you can share it with me".
Avril Lavigne - I'm With You
I'm Standing on a bridge
I'm waitin in the dark
I thought that you'd be here by now
Theres nothing but the rain
No footsteps on the ground
I'm listening but theres no sound
Isn't anyone tryin to find me?
Won't someone please take me home
It's a damn cold night
Trying to figure out this life
Wont you take me by the hand
take me somewhere new
I dont know who you are
but I'm, I'm with you
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Capek!!!!!!!!!
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Rasa capek sudah membuncah dari kepala dan hati gue ini. Pekerjaan yang tidak sesuai dengan harapan dan keinginan, impian yang selama ini dimimpikan semakin menjauh dari pikiran, keluarga yang sama sekali tidak mendukung, dan diri gue yang udah mulai capek dengan rutinitas yang ga ada gunanya ini.
Rasanya ingin sendiri dan berpikir sejenak, biar gue tau apa yang ingin gue lakukan, apa yang harus gue lakukan, dan apa yang membuat gue bahagia sekarang. Tapi itu semua seakan ga pernah terjadi dan waktu untuk itu ga ada ujungnya. Mungkin kali gue ga berbuat apa-apa, orak ini bisa keluar semua isinya. Damn!!
But I must to get over it!!! Soon.................
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Mau Nikah Benar-Benar Membuat Pusing
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Haaaahhh... Apa sih nikah itu? Kok jadi menyebalkan banget.. Apa penting untuk membuat pesta untuk nikah itu sendiri? Siapa sih yang bakal membiayai pesta pernikahan itu sendiri? Gimana sih nikah sesuai dengan adat Jawa itu? zzzzz..... Makes me dizzy...
Suatu hari, gue kepikiran untuk menanyakan masalah pernikahan ini. Yang selama ini gue tau, pihak cewe yang bakalan membiayai dana pesta dari pernikahan. Tapi setelah gue menanyakan ke bokap alias babe, dia malah "mencak" kalo itu adalah tanggungan pihak cowo. Menurutnya, pihak cewe hanya membantu dana dari pesta itu sendiri, sedangkan pihak cowo lah yang menambahkan selebihnya. Nahh loh...
Sekarang apa yang terjadi selanjutnya? Apa coba yang bakalan gue lakukan sekarang? Sapa sih yang benar sekarang? Still have to think about..
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Friday, April 2, 2010
Liburan..
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Bye-bye to : My Travel Book, tas travelku, dan kacamata hitamku.
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Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Taylor Swift - You Belong with Me
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You're on the phone
With your girlfriend
She's upset
She's going off about
Something that you said
She doesn't get your humor
Like I do
I'm in my room
It's a typical tuesday night
I'm listening to the kind of music
She doesn't like
She'll never know your story
Like I do
But she wears short skirts
I wear t-shirts
She's cheer captain
And i'm on the bleachers
Dreaming about the day
When you wake up and find
That what you're looking for
Has been here the whole time
If you could see
That i'm the one
Who understands you
Been here all along
So why can't you
See you belong with me
You belong with me.
Walking the streets
With you and your worn out jeans
I can't help thinking
This is how it ought to be
Laughing on a park bench
Thinking to myself
Hey, isn't this easy?
And you've got a smile
That could light up this whole town
I haven't seen it in awhile
Since she brought you down
You say you're fine
I know you better than that
Hey whatchu doing
With a girl like that
She wears high heels
I wear sneakers
She's cheer captain
I'm on the bleachers
Dreaming about the day
When you wake up and find
That what you're looking for
Has been here the whole time
If you could see
That i'm the one
Who understands you
Been here all along
So why can't you
See you belong with me
Standing by and
Waiting at your backdoor
All this time
How could you not know
Baby
You belong with me
You belong with me.
[Instrumental]
Oh, I remember
You driving to my house
In the middle of the night
I'm the one who makes you laugh
When you know you're about to cry
And I know your favorite songs
And you tell me about your dreams
Think I know where you belong
Think I know it's with me
Can't you see
That i'm the one
Who understands
Been here all along
So why can't you see?
You belong with me.
Have you ever thought
Just maybe
You belong with me?
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The most favourite song from Taylor Swift.. And always sing along when this song played...
You belong with me... I'm the one who makes you laugh. When you know you're about to cry. And I know your favorite songs. And you tell me about your dreams. Think I know where you belong. Think I know it's with me.....
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